When you get in a relationship DO NOT DITCH YOUR FRIENDS !!!!
Yes you love this person, Yes you'd be happy to spend all your time with that person (maybe)
But you do not ditch your friends, it's literally crazy to me why people do this !
Your friends were there for you pre " soulmate ", your friends were there supporting you when your family threw you out, they were there when you drunkenly slept with that person who even now you still cringe when admitting it. They were there when you accidentally liked a 2 year old post on your ex's social media page, They were there to help you discover what goes where, they were there when you were lonely and sobbing into your ice cream telling everyone how much you want to be in a relationship. They love you warts and all !
DO NOT THROW THAT PERSON AWAY !!
I know that you are sure you'll never ever break up with the person your in a relationship with, but when shit hits the fan whether it be a break up or something as dramatic as sudden death. I promise you, you are going to wish that you never neglected your friends because who will you have to talk too ?
Even if said friend welcomes you back with open arms because they're that fantastic and they are willing to forgive you, one thing is for sure, they will never ever forget, whether they ever admit it to you or not, you hurt them. You hurt them bad, you basically phased out your friends, not only will you of really hurt them, but you can guarantee that they would have lost a lot of respect and you'll probably find out they have lost a lot of patience for you too.
Love your friends, they are such important pieces in your life, friendship is so valuable, protect it.
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